|| AFFAIRS, INFIDELITY & TRUST
- A matter of trust - Confused
...finds another woman's phone number in her boyfriend's car and wallet.
- What to do? - Confused II
...wonders if she should give up trying. Married 13 years and currently separated,
her husband has been involved in an affair for close to a year.
- How do I heal a broken heart? - Remorseful
..has his cybersex affair discovered, and his wife wants an end to the marriage.
- Something's missing - Confused III
..finds herself torn between leaving and staying, a few years after an affair takes
the glow out of the relationship.
- Fight v. flight - Oregon
...wonder whether to leave or stay in an 8 year old relationship, after his girlfriend has
an affair 4 years after his own affair.
- Hurting - Firefly
...receives less than straight answers from her husband of 8 years, when she questions him
about ongoing long-distance phone calls to an ex-girlfriend.
- Troubled relationship with a friend of the opposite sex
- Confused IV
...gets conflicting signals from a co-worker he's had a physical affair with, and is still
in love with.
- The awful pain of adultery - Sadder than sad
..is devastated over a new boyfriend's affair, and the betrayal of their shared Christian
- How much to reveal about an affair - Wondering
...is unsure about how much to tell her boyfriend about an outside relationship that
included phone sex, but no actual intercourse.
- Trust - Amberle
...finds a suspicious receipt for drinks, after her boyfriend has admitted an attraction
to a woman at work.
- Trust - Daisy
...battles with fears of her boyfriend cheating, after a history of both partners making
choices that lessen trust in the relationship.
- How long to try? - Oregon
...wonders how long to give the effort of rebuilding the relationship after his
girlfriend's affair, because it seems like she isn't really trying in their joint
- My husband cheated - Unsure Wife
...feels bored and unhappy, after taking back her ex-husband following the breakup of
their 13 year relationship because of his affairs.
- After the Affair - Mzet
...agonizes over how to repair a 9 1/2 marriage that includes 4 children, in light of his
wife's on again/off again affair with an outside lover.
- Wife continuing her affair - Mzet
...discovers his wife's affair is still going on, and finds himself devastated and wanting
to end the marriage.
- Infidelity - Still Brokenhearted
...still feels devastated 5 years after the breakup of a 15 year relationship with an
alcoholic who left her for a woman 10-15 years older.
- Can the guilty partner help the innocent party after
...wonders if and how he can help an ex-girlfriend who is sinking into deep depression,
after he cheated on her and left for his current girlfriend.
- Mixed Up - Mixed
...doesn't have her heart in rebuilding a marriage that she came back to mainly because of
the children, following her affair and a temporary breakup.
- Loving two men in two different ways - alone
...wonders whether she should have tried harder to make a stormy and difficult 12 year
marriage work after her affair, while having jitters about committing to her new
- Being Possessive - Auriane
..feels threatened by the amount of time her boyfriend of 6 years spends on the phone with
his female cousin.
- I'm hurting too much to go on - Untrusting
...is devastated after discovering her sister slept with her husband.
- Do people change? - Robert
...asks if his 50 year old girlfriend can change her spots after she admits to having
numerous affairs in the past.
- How can I trust again? - Hurting1
...tries to begin rebuilding a 16 year marriage, after his wife has an affair with a
- Should I date this married man? - Confused in
...wants to become more involved with a married man, but is unsure what she'll have to
- Distancing by cheating - Kristine
...is distressed by her boyfriend's open flirting, and wonders whether it's
his way of dealing with his intimacy struggles.
- After an affair - Mzet
...believes his wife has finally stopped cheating, but is finding it difficult to handle
her lack of feelings toward him.
- Wife staying but still in love with her lover - tom
..wonders how to get his wife to love him again, after she has an affair with her boss but
decides to stay in the marriage because of the children.
- Resentment, anger after an affair - Mzet
...finds overwhelming anger and resentment pouring out of both him and his wife as they
take the first difficult steps of trying to mend their marriage.
- Adultery - tmw
...asks what stages a person goes through after their partner leaves them for a new lover,
especially when children are involved.
- An effort to come back - Mzet
..gets a spark of new hope in rebuilding after his wife's affair, after seeing two
significant changes in their relationship.
- Help!!! - Mzet
..discovers his wife has started a new affair with a whole new lover, and is at the end of
his rope trying to cope.
- My attorney is going to fire me! - Mzet
..takes another huge leap of faith after his wife shows her first serious desire to work
on the marriage, following his decision to start divorce proceedings.
- Afraid of the answer - Robert
.. has anxious thoughts about a planned meeting between his girlfriend and an online
"friend" of hers.
- Scared To Death - pd
..finds conflicting feelings of guilt and love driving her in a ping-pong pattern, leaving
her marriage for a cyberlover, then coming back, then leaving again, then.
- Dealing with the affair - Hern
...discovers his wife has been having an affair, and is pregnant from her lover.
- How to re-start love - Mzet
..wonders why it is so hard for people to recapture feelings of love for a partner, after
that love is initially lost.
- Mentally Cheating? - steve02
..discovers an unfinished love letter his girlfriend has been writing to a married man.
- Trying to get over it - Hurting
..wishes she could get over hurting so much, after she and her husband try to rebuild
their marriage in the aftermath of his affair.
- Her feelings still haven't changed - Tom
... finds it hard that his wife hasn't regained any feelings of love for him, after
she decided to work on their marriage after her affair.
- Trust - scully
...feels shut out by her much older CEO boyfriend, and is worried that he still talks to
some former girlfriends.
- Divorce after an affair (or two) - mzet
...decides to go ahead with a divorce, after unsuccessful attempts to rebuild the marriage
after his wife's affair.
- Why do I feel so terrible - Separated
...can't eat or sleep, after throwing her husband out of the house for having an affair
during her pregnancy.
- Affair in Iowa - Tore up in Iowa
...has a hard time even looking at his wife after her affair.
- Recovering - Hern
...is unsure about how to deal with sexual issues, after he and his wife begin counseling
in the aftermath of her affair.
- Feeling like a fool - Texan
..begins having deep feelings for a female friend, after his former lover leaves to return
to her husband.
- To Bernd/Lynda- duped
..discovers the man she has been having a 2 year long-distance relationship with is living
with another woman.
- Virtual love - Lilly
...has a cyber relationship turn serious, causing problems in her marriage and in her
- Help! - Just Me
..wants to leave an unhappy 5 year marriage, and finds her willingness to try their
counselor's suggestions complicated by her feelings for an online "friend".
- VT to RT relationships - Barry
..gets loud warning signals that his cyberlover has started a real life relationship with
- Feeling Really Rotten - PD
..finds herself in ongoing misery, after leaving her lover before returning to her husband
to try and make the marriage work again.
- Recovering from affair, but not really - rose
... is still having a difficult time 2 years after her husband's affair with a co-worker,
especially since he still works with his ex-lover.
- To: Bernd, et al - Lady "G"
..looks for advice in her wish to get more deeply involved with a married man.
- The guilty one - Katy
..is having a hard time trying to patch things up with her husband, after she responded
non-sexually to a pass his cousin made.