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Gifts from a Higher Power - Susan

ALL: Have you read Misty's poems ???? Such a beautiful gift she has been given. I would love to hear Kim sing too. Maybe one of Misty's poems - WOW, I don't know if my emotions could take it at this point. You two are an inspiration for all of us. We each have our "gifts" and should use them to enrich the world (as you each do). Thank you for reminding me of that.

Our HP sure does have a way of getting to us when we need it most. I had just had a "conversation" with my *dh*. One where he was up to his old tricks of trying to make me think I had single-handedly destroyed the universe as we know it. I *personally* ruined our fabulous marriage and family (gag.....).

Misty, your poem gave me the very thing I needed most - hope. Hope that tomorrow is another day and I will be in a BETTER place in it. I will start looking for my own "velvet sofa". Thank you for your gift to me and to the rest of us in need of hope and inspiration.

From: cool kim

Well, I just think you should utilize this knowledge that you gained about single-handedly destroying the world to realize just how powerful you are. I had no idea! Since you have so very much power, would you please use it for good and fix everyone's problems at this web site?

You know of course that you are already in a better place, it's the other one who just tries to drag you back into the swamp. Be strong and "I'll see ya'll"!

From: Susan

We are silly!!! Thank God - He gave us laughter and a sense of humor to get us over the rough spots. Thanks for the ROFLOL, oh mighty cool one. Serious, for minute, thank you.... what is that saying about alligators in the swamp (up to my WHAT?). Now about that accent you have....... Lawsey me, don't ya'll know I am from the South originally. Glad you didn't take offense at the teasing.

I was raised in Almost Heaven (WVa). Lived in FL, GA, TN and AL. THEN to top it off, I spend most of my work day talking with folks in the South.... I have the most frustrating "uniquely blended" Southern accent you are EVER likely to hear. As I speak to people in each different state - my accent changes to fit!!!! Co-workers have a blast with that.. "Oh, Scarlett, do the Alabama one" etc. (yes, most midwesterners only think of that red-haired vixen, then again I am IRISH and have auburn hair ??!!!)

I have relatives in TN. All I had to do was go there on vacation and it took me DAYS to learn midwestern (Ohio) again. When I retire, it will be to Asheville, NC - so I will **nevah lose my accent dahlin' **. Now I know why you are so Cool, Kim. {{{{{{{Kim}}}}}}}

From: Bernd

You girls crack me up in the nicest way!:))) You both help make this forum seem like a home. And I agree - Misty's poems reached me and Lynda in ways that the English language normally can't. When I've gone inside to my special place in the past, there was a valley with a field of all different kinds of flowers, each one unique. It was that uniqueness that made the valley a rich tapestry. Those flowers laugh and sing whenever I go inside to that special place. You helped remind me of that place.:))) Huggggs. P.S. But no comeback about "blooming idiots"!!!

From: Silly Susan

Bernd - SHOOT........ Now you took all the fun out of it !!! Bloomin' idiots - indeed !!!! *why, dahlin', NEVAH would we say such a ridiculous thang"* But we might want to discuss **daffy-dills**. I'm glad we made you laugh, I'm glad we make US laugh !!!! I know I sure needed one at that point - helps put all the crap in perspective sometimes.

BUT, does anyone actually KNOW that silly saying about alligators and draining the swamp?? I have decided that I need to use that as my (mental) "protection" the next time I get one of those **lovely** phone calls !!!! Cool Kim gave me a gift without knowing it.....

Oddly enough, my secret place inside is an old cottage with French doors opening into a beautiful garden, complete with gazebo and a 'singing' fountain/bird bath. The inside is a lot of windows and soft colors, with sunshine beaming through the lace curtains. (I have very Victorian taste in decorating.) Misty's "Velvet Sofa" hit me like a ton of bricks - since there SHOULD be one in my cottage. I am going to find it, that's a promise !!! {{{{{{Bernd}}}}}}

From: cool kim

It's funny that you two talk about your private place. I have only dabbled in deep relaxation and meditation. When it came to the point to find a place in my mind that would be safe, I couldn't think of one. Every time I imagined one, I could sense danger coming or my mind would make something bad happen. The *only* place I have been able to come up with that seems safe is a little place secluded in the woods. There's a small water fall spilling into a little pondish pool of water. Next to it is a large flat rock that I can lay on in the warm sun with a cool, gentle breeze blowing on my skin. I have jean shorts, sneakers and a sports bra top with a shirt tied around my waist. (I'm also twenty pounds thinner, but that's a whole nother subject!). Anyway, I can hear the birds singing, the water falling and I am completely alone with nature. So far nothing has disturbed that peace I feel there, but it's a little scary.

The other thing to Susan, I *love* victorian "stuff". My house doesn't exactly reflect it, but then again when I'm in my 40s and the kids are out of college in their successful careers (please God!), then I will have a little place for myself, near the woods or ocean and decorate to my hearts content with victorian finds from flea markets, etc. I was actually on the web last night looking under "victorian" for any websites dedicated to such. I have had subscriptions to a few magazines that have expired and wondered if they had an on-line magazine. So far I haven 't found one.

Geez, this is getting too creepy. (They act alike, they walk alike, at times they even talk alike.....remember Patty Duke show, maybe we're long lost southern belle cousins, huh!?)

From: Susan

Might be hard to find a safe place in Kansas - don't you guys have a lot of tornados over there - DOROTHY ???!!!! (might as well "join us" in our hilarities). Somehow I see you by the ocean - tumbled rocks, waves crashing against the shore, you standing in a tidal pool with your pants legs rolled up and you shoes in your hand. At sunset, with the wind blowing in your hair - blowing all the "BAD" stuff away. Sunset with the beautiful pinks and purples - so calming, yet so alive. Can you see it yet ?? Peace to you.

From: Misty

Right now I am having an argument with my HP. When I got divorced after 25 years it took awhile for me to see that the worst things that happen to us can also be the best things that happen. I haven't got to that point this time. I am just trying to find a little serenity. I love the idea of a safe place. I don't have one but it will give me something to think about. Lots of Love and Hugs.

From: Susan

In search of gifts........ Special places deep inside, the only safe place to go, to hide........ Misty, Kim, Bernd & Lynda and ALL seekers, Have any others see the work of the Painter - Thomas Kinkade ???? IMHO he is the most gifted person alive today !!! At least with a paint brush. For some idea of the beauty and peace one person can carry inside......... Go to www.thomaskinkade.com. I have some of the inxpensive stuff - have been collecting for 2-3 years. Calendars, books etc., can't afford the "real" stuff. I want to have the peace and beauty in my heart and in my life that his creations reflect. When I am REALLY down, I can just "dive into" one of the pictures and find a little of the tranquility I so desperately need. Just an FYI, we are all looking for ways to cope - this is a really good one for me.


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