 How do you know when a man does
not love you? - Anne
I have totally fell in love with a real nice guy on
the internet. We have chatted together for about a month
now and he is truly my prince charming...he started out
telling me he really loves me and wants to be with
me...but now I am doing it and he seems very distant
feeling and does not say it anymore..What could be wrong?
 From: Been
there
The Internet seems to be a prime place to meet
predators. They love pursuit but lose interest in the
game as soon as they've achieved their goal - getting the
respondent to emotionally commit. After any expression of
affection or emotion, the predator drops the respondent
like a hot stone. It seems that you've met your first; my
advice is to not waste any more time on this person, and
to move on as quickly as possible.
From: wolfie
I met my partner via the internet and we have been
together for two years now. There are definitely those
out there who deep down FEAR intimacy (but they are not
only on the internet - they are everywhere) and it won't
work out ..... but in every situation, experience, we
learn more about OURSELVES and what we are attracting
into our lives and why. Every experience is a wonderful
opportunity to grow.
From: Prism
Dear Anne, I will recommend a $5.00 paperback for you.
This is a wonderful tool and I ENCOURAGE you to read it.
It's easy to read and a very good guideline to find
answers about yourself, your reasons for loving, him, and
his reasons for loving. It also, talks about
"signals" to look for in a courtship that are
warning signs and/or encouraging. The name of the
paperback is "Are You The One For Me?" by Dr.
Barbara DeAngelos (last name is misspelled - sorry), but
any bookstore can order it for you via the title. From
where you are sitting, reach for the yellow pages and
telephone, call you closest book store and have them
reserve or order and reserve the book for you. DO IT NOW!
You are very important to your friends and family and
no one wants to see someone they love be used or led
astray. When you develop some emotional stability you
will become EMPOWERED as a woman or young woman and you
WILL make a healthier decisions. Good luck and let me
know what you think of the book.
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