• A matter of trust - Confused
  ...finds another woman's phone number in her boyfriend's car and wallet.
• What to do? - Confused II
  ...wonders if she should give up trying. Married 13 years and currently separated, her husband has been involved in an affair for close to a year.
• How do I heal a broken heart? - Remorseful
  ..has his cybersex affair discovered, and his wife wants an end to the marriage.
• Something's missing - Confused III
  ..finds herself torn between leaving and staying, a few years after an affair takes the glow out of the relationship.
• Fight v. flight - Oregon
  ...wonder whether to leave or stay in an 8 year old relationship, after his girlfriend has an affair 4 years after his own affair.
• Hurting - Firefly
  ...receives less than straight answers from her husband of 8 years, when she questions him about ongoing long-distance phone calls to an ex-girlfriend.
• Troubled relationship with a friend of the opposite sex - Confused IV
  ...gets conflicting signals from a co-worker he's had a physical affair with, and is still in love with.
• The awful pain of adultery - Sadder than sad
  ..is devastated over a new boyfriend's affair, and the betrayal of their shared Christian values.
• How much to reveal about an affair - Wondering
  ...is unsure about how much to tell her boyfriend about an outside relationship that included phone sex, but no actual intercourse.
• Trust - Amberle
  ...finds a suspicious receipt for drinks, after her boyfriend has admitted an attraction to a woman at work.
• Trust - Daisy
  ...battles with fears of her boyfriend cheating, after a history of both partners making choices that lessen trust in the relationship.
• How long to try? - Oregon
  ...wonders how long to give the effort of rebuilding the relationship after his girlfriend's affair, because it seems like she isn't really trying in their joint counselling sessions.
• My husband cheated - Unsure Wife
  ...feels bored and unhappy, after taking back her ex-husband following the breakup of their 13 year relationship because of his affairs.
• After the Affair - Mzet
  ...agonizes over how to repair a 9 1/2 marriage that includes 4 children, in light of his wife's on again/off again affair with an outside lover.
• Wife continuing her affair - Mzet
  ...discovers his wife's affair is still going on, and finds himself devastated and wanting to end the marriage.
• Infidelity - Still Brokenhearted
  ...still feels devastated 5 years after the breakup of a 15 year relationship with an alcoholic who left her for a woman 10-15 years older.
• Can the guilty partner help the innocent party after infidelity?- Uneasy
  ...wonders if and how he can help an ex-girlfriend who is sinking into deep depression, after he cheated on her and left for his current girlfriend.
• Mixed Up - Mixed
  ...doesn't have her heart in rebuilding a marriage that she came back to mainly because of the children, following her affair and a temporary breakup.
• Loving two men in two different ways - alone
  ...wonders whether she should have tried harder to make a stormy and difficult 12 year marriage work after her affair, while having jitters about committing to her new boyfriend.
• Being Possessive - Auriane
  ..feels threatened by the amount of time her boyfriend of 6 years spends on the phone with his female cousin.
• I'm hurting too much to go on - Untrusting
  ...is devastated after discovering her sister slept with her husband.
• Do people change? - Robert
  ...asks if his 50 year old girlfriend can change her spots after she admits to having numerous affairs in the past.
• How can I trust again? - Hurting1
  ...tries to begin rebuilding a 16 year marriage, after his wife has an affair with a long-time friend.
• Should I date this married man? - Confused in Seattle
  ...wants to become more involved with a married man, but is unsure what she'll have to deal with.
• Distancing by cheating - Kristine
  ...is distressed by her boyfriend's open flirting, and wonders whether it's his way of dealing with his intimacy struggles.
• After an affair - Mzet
  ...believes his wife has finally stopped cheating, but is finding it difficult to handle her lack of feelings toward him.
• Wife staying but still in love with her lover - tom
  ..wonders how to get his wife to love him again, after she has an affair with her boss but decides to stay in the marriage because of the children.
• Resentment, anger after an affair - Mzet
  ...finds overwhelming anger and resentment pouring out of both him and his wife as they take the first difficult steps of trying to mend their marriage.
• Adultery - tmw
  ...asks what stages a person goes through after their partner leaves them for a new lover, especially when children are involved.
• An effort to come back - Mzet
  ..gets a spark of new hope in rebuilding after his wife's affair, after seeing two significant changes in their relationship.
• Help!!! - Mzet
  ..discovers his wife has started a new affair with a whole new lover, and is at the end of his rope trying to cope.
• My attorney is going to fire me! - Mzet
  ..takes another huge leap of faith after his wife shows her first serious desire to work on the marriage, following his decision to start divorce proceedings.
• Afraid of the answer - Robert
  .. has anxious thoughts about a planned meeting between his girlfriend and an online "friend" of hers.
• Scared To Death - pd
  ..finds conflicting feelings of guilt and love driving her in a ping-pong pattern, leaving her marriage for a cyberlover, then coming back, then leaving again, then.

Newest Entries

• Dealing with the affair - Hern
  ...discovers his wife has been having an affair, and is pregnant from her lover.
• How to re-start love - Mzet
  ..wonders why it is so hard for people to recapture feelings of love for a partner, after that love is initially lost.
• Mentally Cheating? - steve02
  ..discovers an unfinished love letter his girlfriend has been writing to a married man.
• Trying to get over it - Hurting
  ..wishes she could get over hurting so much, after she and her husband try to rebuild their marriage in the aftermath of his affair.
• Her feelings still haven't changed - Tom
  ... finds it hard that his wife hasn't regained any feelings of love for him, after she decided to work on their marriage after her affair.
• Trust - scully
  ...feels shut out by her much older CEO boyfriend, and is worried that he still talks to some former girlfriends.
• Divorce after an affair (or two) - mzet
  ...decides to go ahead with a divorce, after unsuccessful attempts to rebuild the marriage after his wife's affair.
• Why do I feel so terrible - Separated
  ...can't eat or sleep, after throwing her husband out of the house for having an affair during her pregnancy.
• Affair in Iowa - Tore up in Iowa
  ...has a hard time even looking at his wife after her affair.
• Recovering - Hern
  ...is unsure about how to deal with sexual issues, after he and his wife begin counseling in the aftermath of her affair.
• Feeling like a fool - Texan
  ..begins having deep feelings for a female friend, after his former lover leaves to return to her husband.
• To Bernd/Lynda- duped
  ..discovers the man she has been having a 2 year long-distance relationship with is living with another woman.
• Virtual love - Lilly
  ...has a cyber relationship turn serious, causing problems in her marriage and in her cyberlover's marriage.
• Help! - Just Me
  ..wants to leave an unhappy 5 year marriage, and finds her willingness to try their counselor's suggestions complicated by her feelings for an online "friend".
• VT to RT relationships - Barry
  ..gets loud warning signals that his cyberlover has started a real life relationship with another man.
• Feeling Really Rotten - PD
  ..finds herself in ongoing misery, after leaving her lover before returning to her husband to try and make the marriage work again.
• Recovering from affair, but not really - rose
  ... is still having a difficult time 2 years after her husband's affair with a co-worker, especially since he still works with his ex-lover.
• To: Bernd, et al - Lady "G"
  ..looks for advice in her wish to get more deeply involved with a married man.
• The guilty one - Katy
  ..is having a hard time trying to patch things up with her husband, after she responded non-sexually to a pass his cousin made.