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 Separation - Karl
My wife and I are presently separated could tell me
the stages of feelings I will go through. I still love
her very much.
 From: Bernd
Run, don't walk, to your nearest bookstore and/or
library and pick up some books on dealing with seperation
or divorce (the stages are pretty similar in each). In a
nutsahell, despondency, anger, confusing, despair, panic,
numbness, and all sorts of other "crazy"
feelings. They are all NORMAL. Just remember, feelings
aren't choices, and just because you feel a certain way
at a certain time doesn't mean you have to DO anything
about that feeling. Your emotions are natural reactions
to something that opens up a whole bunch of trapdoors
inside you, and if you let yourself FEEL them, and search
for answers to what they are trying to tell you about
yourself, they can help you tremendously in healing from
the seperation, and coming out of it with more inner
peace, and greater chances of having a BETTER
relationship if you reunite, or in your next relationship
with someone else.
It helped me a lot too, to remind myself "and
this too shall pass". Hang in there guy. You WILL
get thru it. And the sun will shine again.
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