Re: Give her Space

Re: Give her Space ----- From: Bernd - Date: 03 Nov 1997

She tried therapy and gave up because she lost hope that it was helping. Are you willing to try therapy for yourself, and hang with therapy long enough to help you make a real difference? Your example is going to speak louder than anything I know. Remember too that it took many years for things to get to this point. Giving yourself a few years to find a much better and surer path for your part of the relationship may take many months before you begin to see a light at the end of the tunnel, but considering what the rewards can be, is that really too much time to invest?:)

In our case I found the more I reached out and searched for answers, and got other people's insight, the brighter the present and the future became. I have a deep faith that the same approach can work as well for anyone.

Good luck.