Re: Verbal Abuse Advise

Re: Verbal Abuse Advise ----- From: della - Date: 04 Nov 1997

Hi! haven't written for awhile but I read these postings daily.

I'm right by your side on this one Kim and Bernd's. We do attract certain people and circumstances into our lives for a reason. Although those reasons might not be obvious to us if we continue to lay blame on everyone else instead of accepting responsibility for the lives WE are creating for ourselves it sure doesn't leave much room for us to grow - emotionally, spiritually or physically. It is when we start looking for answers within OURSELVES that we are truly ready for change and growth within our lives. And what a difference it makes when we finally come to that understanding and acceptance!

If I hadn't started reading the postings on this site and asking questions I would have continued to to blame everyone else and I would have continued looking for answers in all the WRONG places for the situations I was attracting into my life AND kept right on attracting those same situations.

Bernd, the words and thoughts and "best guesses" that you and other people have shared on this forum have certainly made a difference in so many lives, in such a positive way, I guess I want to say thanks one more time. The people on this site gave me strength when I needed it, and understanding when I really didn't think I deserved it. The path I am taking to search for answers about my life and the people I attract into it has many doors that I didn't see before and these doors all open to bits and pieces of myself. That's the one VERY important thing I have learned, WE are the creators of our circumstances and the changes have to come from within us.

Thanks again.