Re: dealing with the guilt

Re: dealing with the guilt ----- From: Betty....to Bernd and or Lynday - Date: 06 Nov 1997

Can I ask you something? With the affairs that you went thru......what if one of you did get an std like herpes......do you think you would or could have worked thru that? Forgiven each other? I don't know if my husband could forgive me and i don't know if i could forgive myself.....it would make me feeleven dirtier inside then i already feel....and i would feel dirty on the outside.....it would affect our sex life and our whole lives in general. i dont know what to do about that.........