Re: i feel worse everyday

Re: i feel worse everyday ----- From: Bernd - Date: 09 Nov 1997

Maybe the pain is trying to tell you something Betty, and it's "screaming louder" because you haven't gotten it's true message yet? My best guess is - as I mentioned before - waking up each morning with an untreated broken leg, and having it hurt more and more. It may be that until you reach out to a real therapist, your emotional pain will be left pretty well untreated, just like a broken leg. You are trying to handle this pretty much alone, and the pain might be telling you that you CAN'T handle it alone - that you need some serious outside help. If this is what it is trying to tell you, it's going to be like a screaming child trying to get thru to its parent - it's going to scream louder and louder, until it's message finally gets thru. Does this ring any echoes inside of you?

Hope you DO find the choices you need to begin finding some true relief from your despair.