How will I know?

How will I know? ----- From: Broken Heart - Date: 10 Nov 1997

I just want to ask how do you know when your husband is having an affair? He has had one in the past while I was pregnant? It took me a little while to figure it out but I did. I don't know exactly how long it went on for but he had unprotected sex with this girl. I think it may have went on for about one to two months. It took me confronting the girl to get the truth from him and her. That was definitley not easy. I am still hurting very badly from this. My husband won't really talk about it, he gets mad and says its over with now so don't worry about it. He says he don't like to think about it anymore. We live in a new state now and I still can't get over it. Even worse he is acting strange again and I can't tell if he is or isn't because it is not at all like the way he acted before. So hopefully someone can tell me what to look for to see if he is cheating. I would deeply appreciate it.