Re: How will I know?

Re: How will I know? ----- From: bubbles - Date: 10 Nov 1997

I am sorry to hear about what happened to you. my boyfriend of 4 years whom I have lived with for almost 3 cheated on me two years ago. I had to learn about it from the girl's boyfriend whom she lived with and had a child with. This occured after my boyfriend's mother died from a battle with cancer. He was also layed off from his job but got it back. Instead of reacing out to me at his time of need he chose to engage in a one-night stand. I am not making excuses for him. It takes a long time to get over the pain, anger and resentment. I still have a hard time sometimes and you can't help but feel that you will never trust this person 100% again. You have to talk to your husband, make him talk and figure out if this is worth working on and what caused it. Don't let him walk away and use his anger on you, that's a load of crap.