Re: Our marriage is crumbling into devastation

Re: Our marriage is crumbling into devastation ----- From: Josie - Date: 10 Nov 1997

I really felt your posting today was full of wisdom and maturity...and I wholehearteadly agree with your view about the kids. It put a smile on my face. I think that it is really important to put any resentments or bad feelings towards an 'ex' for the sake of the children. We have managed to do that for them and I think that this attitude really helped them to cope and adjust to us not leaving together. Children really are the innocent party in all the mess of separation and divorce and we ought it to them to be at least respecful when we talk about the other parent and to look after our emotional, as well as physical health as much as we can. Take care friend, love Josie