Re: Our marriage is crumbling into devastation

Re: Our marriage is crumbling into devastation ----- From: InSearchOf: To Josie... - Date: 11 Nov 1997

Josie, I think you were responding to the later writings of Mzets' post to me. I might tell you that my wife and I are on a good track in this respect, for we have always shown much love and appreciation of each other in front of our daughters over the years. They have seen some difficulties these last few weeks, but they have seen much much more of the tenderness that has always been present in our marriage and family. And beyond that, my wife and I really don't have bad things to say about each other. We have always respected and loved each other in ways that show admiration, sincerity and thoughtfullness. We will never have those negative feelings and force them onto our kids. We are most proud of that. We have a "thing" going on about us, even while parting that is positive and loving and real. Damn am I glad too. It makes us and our girls feel "more right" even while things are so wrong. Thank you Josie. InSearchOf

P.S. I should have acknowledged Mzets' views and points on this area, but I never got there. Now I have.