Re: My marriage is crumbling into devastation

Re: My marriage is crumbling into devastation ----- From: Bernd - Date: 02 Dec 1997

There's a quote that comes to mind, that goes something like this "pain is the breaking of the shell to our understanding". It's quite an incredible feeling that replaces the excruciating pain we once felt, once we embrace a loving truth that is win/win for us and others, eh? God has built a helluva feedback system into our bodies. And I guess you are finding out what I keep finding out: when someone suggests a certain path that our brain rebels at because it seems it just COULDN'T work, it's time to ask "how can I work this?" instead of "how can this possibly work?". You ain't seen nothin yet.:)