Re: Can fall out of love because of " I don't know" (wolfie) ----- From: Faith - Date: 02 Dec 1997

I really appreciate your response and I definately can understand where that opinion could make sense, but I guess I need to give a little more details on these circumstance. My boyfriend is currently playing professional baseball (minor league). And for those who do not know what kind of life this sport can offer, let me fill you in. It is constantly changing and depending on circunstance, such as whether he traded, whether he is in a slump, whether someone gets injured, as so on.... So alot of these things are not in our control. And I would never ask him to give up on a dream he has spent his entire life working toward, just so we can work on us. I'm not saying I'm not taking the back seat, it's more like I'm supporting his dreams just as I know he would and has done for me.

As for my career, I have spent several years working to get to the point I am. And I need to have my own accomplshments and goal in order for me to be happy and whole. I could never see myself giving up my dreams in order to have someone in my life. It just would be unfair to both of us in general.

Finally in regards to a our sex life, I can promise you there were no complaints from either one of us. It was very strong and passionate when we were involved with each other. But do you really think it would be the right for us to have a physical relationship without having the deep emotion we both once had shared. In my mind that would almost be what I consider a "cheap thrill". And with this relationship I would never want to give anything less than 100%.

I'll wait for your response about the circumstances question. But I guess I really don't agree with that statement, mainly because there have been several things that have happened in my life in which I had no control of. My reality as you call it may effect others but probably won't change all the aspects of the circumstances.

Faith

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