Re: Would your mate cheat?

Re: Would your mate cheat? ----- From: Bugga - Date: 02 Dec 1997

This really pisses me off!! This isn't a tool to help a relationship! It REEKS of your own insecurities!

I doubt if one of these sweet, wonderful people on this forum would do such a thing anyway.

Well, good for you that your mate isn't cheating on the internet. Are you truly comfortable with knowing there's no cyberbabe threatening your relationship? What will be your next move, hiding in bushes or rigging up a surveilance device? Get real. All of us are looking for solutions, not another problem. Yes, I have a HUGE problem with this because these people have been like family to me. Some of them may see this as a solution to 'all of their troubles'. But it WILL NOT bring lasting peace of mind. It is not the RIGHT WAY of finding peace with ourselves and healing.

Now that I've said my honest to God, angry, knee-jerking piece, you have my personal invitation to share your feelings and join these discussions to search for answers.

Bugga

P.S. I also know what it's like to suspect and be suspected of cheating.