Re: Would your mate cheat?

Re: Would your mate cheat? ----- From: leslie - Date: 02 Dec 1997

You're absolutely right! I was very insecure. Who isn't?! If we were all overflowing with self-esteem and supreme confidence forums like this wouldn't exist. My husband did decline to meet this woman in person, but their conversations were not exactly harmless flirting. Some of the conversations were very steamy...fantasies he'd never expressed to me. But I still feel that the service provided valuable insight...we now discuss everything very openly. Yes, what I did was sneaky and underhanded to be sure, but what did sharing his most intimate thoughts say about him? *laugh* Sorry, but it seem very silly and as you said "insecure" when I look back on it now. But the end result was a better understanding of each others needs and how to fulfill them. Yet, I can only wonder what my reaction would have been if I'd received proof in black and white that he was interested in meeting this woman? Ah, that old insecurity again...don't we all wonder?