Re: Would your mate cheat? ----- From: Bugga - Date: 02 Dec 1997

Don't we all wonder? What's that supposed to mean. Should I ask everyone, "Isn't everyone out to get me?" Let's go here: Does hubby know about this? Hmmm. And what is hubby's feeling now about having his right to privacy stripped? And since you're more open and honest with each other, and now that everything is in the open and all better with the HUGE BAND-AID you just put on it, do YOU feel more secure about trusting his actions? Does he respect you for "giving him the ability" to share fantasies he didn't admit before because they were PRIVATE? Self-esteem or insecurity issues are BIG problems for many people. But there are other issues like co-dependency, which will usually encompass that, then there's drug and alcohol-related problems, TRUST, depression....the list goes on. Self-esteem alone will never make or break forums like these.

If this self-esteem/security issue you have still exists, I would re-examine that before bugging his phone.

Bugga

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