Re: Can fall out of love because of " I don't know"

Re: Can fall out of love because of " I don't know" ----- From: Bugga - Date: 03 Dec 1997

That was well-said Faith. I really admire your abilty to communicate well enough with your SO in order to discover this!

Too many times people go through the motions of a relationship without really thinking about it much. The first year and a half to two years are generally the most passionate and 'lustful' in a relationship. The relationship changes as time goes by month to month and then year to year. Needs of each person changes over time and it can get more difficult to communicate effectively with so little time available. So how can you know for sure that you've really grown that far apart? If you were in love with each other before, and aren't now, are you sure it was love and not Lust? Perhaps not lust, but the romantic love is what I really mean. That doesn't last for long anyway.

I admit, I haven't read the posts below yet so I don't want to risk being redundant. And for all I know, you may have found the Big Aha! you were looking for.

If any of this touches on an area you have doubts about in your situation, we can talk again.

Good luck!! Bugga