Re: REaction to post about cheating mate to Wolfie, Diane & T... ----- From: wolfie - Date: 03 Dec 1997

Hi Bugga my Friend,

Affirmations have helped change my life in more ways than I could type here on this board. However, look for the book:-)

If we focus on our problems, we stay stuck in our problems. If we focus on our solution, it magically appears before our very eyes ;-)

Here is a story for you and one to keep in mind. There was this teacher and she told ALL of her students for the upcoming week to see how many mercedes cars they saw in the week ahead. When they came back to their class the following week, the teacher asked them how many mercedes cars they saw? They told her: 15, 20. She asked - well how many shit boxes did you see? They looked at each other, thought about it, and said: NONE. Okay, now for the week ahead, I want you to see how many shit boxes you see? Well of course when they came back for their next class, she asked them how many shit boxes they saw? They said: 15, 20. She said, how many mercedes cars did you see? NONE.

Point. What you choose to focus on is your reality!

When I was creating a man list of all the qualities I was looking for in a relationship, I looked at my previous relationships and chose all of the qualities I loved about those people. I didn't look back and think about all of the qualities I hated. For instance, if I go around saying: men are this way, they are this way, - heck well by my focus and my thoughts, that is the reality I am creating!!! However, When I focus on all of the qualities I loved or DESIRE: (respect, love, addiction-FREE, etc.) I co-created with Spirit, THAT reality!!!! And I GOT what I asked for!!!!!! ;-)

Lots of Love, kim

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