Re: REaction to post about cheating mate to Wolfie, Diane & T... ----- From: wolfie - Date: 03 Dec 1997

LOL - YES Bernd - I HEAR YA!!! :-)

This mirror thing is a trip, yes? With my relationship, and with people, in general, I find that how I treat them is basically how I treat me. Relationships are that day to day mirror. And to be honest, I haven't always wanted to look in the mirror every day, because I haven't liked what I have seen. However, I have found that by NOT judging me, just accepting my awareness, I am growing in my self love - and I am therefore able to accept WHEREVER someone else is at and the choices they make.

It is my reactions which tell me I've got a problem here and there is something I need to heal and forgive.

Bernd, it's like this. I can't stand authority figures - I hate people acting like know-it-alls and thinking they have all of the answers without listening to others point of views. I feel that EVERY point of view is value - not right or wrong - just different!!!! And do you know WHY I hate these authority figures - because THEY ARE ME!!!! Oh yes - I am Grand Master Know it all when I want to be. Argh. But I find, by laughing at myself, and accepting ME I am able to move thru the process much more easier than if I beat myself up! Then I will just do things that make me want to beat myself up more :-)

Life is a grand trip!

Love and laughter, hugs, kim

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