Re: long distance love ----- From: Bugga - Date: 03 Dec 1997

1. Why did you become attracted to her? 2. Why do you want a romantic relationship w/her? 3. What if she were a self-sufficient, hardworking, independent woman of the nineties with no ex-husband, trucker or kids? Would you feel any differently about her and WHY? 4. What does she do FOR YOU?

Two of those questions are from a previous reply from me. I think this is a very important issue and you can get a lot of valuable input. Create a new post instead of replying to this, because I'd like others to get involved with this. I'll spread the word.

First, PLEASE be honest and ask yourself the above questions, ok? Don't allow yourself to be side-tracked with thoughts of her or the trucker, OK? Focus on yourself. Even if an answer prompts another question. This is how I peeled. EVEN IF THE ANSWER CAUSES AN EMOTION OR TWO TO POP UP. Stop when you feel you can no longer move inward, or when you feel you've hit an area you need help with...then... post a new message titled Long Distance Love Needs Advice w/your alias, OK?

K. Talk to you when you're done. Take your time.

(((frustrated))) <---- huggs luv, bugga p>

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