Re: Breaking up???

Re: Breaking up??? ----- From: SK - Date: 07 Dec 1997

I'm fairly new to this forum - and am learning ALOT on my own - But I think you will here ( in a more elegent fashion) from the others that if your SO does not want a relationship then it is HIS decision and you will learn to and not fight him with it....you cannot FORCE someone to love you???

It sounds like you are unhappy with your decision as well - and it might help to know that all the "i told you so's" dont change a THING - you have to learn this stuff on your own and your FAMILY dont have crystal balls - they should be a little more understanding (but would rather be righteous and all knowing) Remember this is YOUR life and YOU get to make the decision here...the best thing for you may be to focus on what it is that the pain is telling??? ANd act on those feelings?? hmmmm kindo hard to focus IN - but you will see results - your partner is giving you this time - USE IT!!!!

If your family cant be supportive - seek it out elsewhere! Like here?? - to the pillow,SK