Re: Ouch... ----- From: Bill - Date: 08 Dec 1997

I would say take a break from both of them, for a bit At least in the physical catagory. It's amazing how much clearer you think when you abstain for a while.

As far as anyone's feelings are concerned, I believe those can shift a great deal on one's perceptions as much as any other influence. Maybe your old beau has intimacy problems. My fiancee and I split after a five year "going together" stage. I was not able to concieve of a future with her (with anyone really) and we both said many things because we felt like it that we probably shouldn't have. Now, after a one year split, a couple of outside relationships, etc., we are getting married in March. It feels right. And aside from some personal issues, We couldn't be happier. It's great building a future.

Your feelings can change greatly. Try to give yourself time to make the right choices.

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