Re: Band-Aid from Father w/ out lOve... ----- From: crushd - Date: 09 Dec 1997

one last thought

If and when I vent my anger - expressively - does it HAVE to be directed at him - if not in a support group - I know I havn't really allowed it to flow out of me. My sisters have been violated also - yet they remain in a detached periodic distant relationship w/ him. They crave his love so badly...my confrontation raised alot of flags - but no one was there to support me ( my brother attended a few meetings and remains supportive) My sisters think I must be crazy - to be dealing w/ this NOW after so long...but time has only brought more pain - not eased it. My sisters form a wall so thick - and high - it drives us apart - and THAT distance hurts too! They respond as if I am attacking HIM - by telling my story of how he violated me and my trust. the days are long ahead i feel, and the strugle takes new form, thanks-you AGAIN and best to you, crushd((((((

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