To Texan P. S.

To Texan P. S. ----- From: wolfie - Date: 17 Dec 1997

Texan,

It appears that I am being very harsh on you and it is true - i am. It is because many times in my life, I am harsh on me. I apologize for that. I do!!!It is just that your post, spurred a reaction in me because I happen to care about your old Lover and also because I know that you know she reads these posts, I thought you were trying to make her feel guilty for leaving you. THat was MY perception (I am NOT saying that is what you were doing, but it is MY perception) I say this because I HAVE tried to make others feel guilty MANY MANY MANY times in my life and I obviously have not forgiven me for it - I am actually angry at MYSELF for trying to make others feel guilty so obviously I have some work to do on that. So I apologize for getting on your case.

However, I do maintain what I believe and do maintain my belief that neither one of you are to blame because the relationship didn't work out - but you were BOTH responsible for it. Blame and taking responsibility do NOT need to go hand in hand.

Blessings, kim

p.s. I am happy that you are happy in your present relationship. Blessings.