Re: He left me for an older woman; I feel i'm being punished ----- From: rapunzel - Date: 17 Dec 1997

Dearest LA,

Yes, you will find someone who will want to build a fulfilling and mutual relationship with you. The world is full of healthy, loving men who are looking for the same things you are. Grieve this relationship, learn to love yourself again, and you will find you are seeing them EVERYWHERE.

This guy, if you'll forgive me, seems to have issues of his own. He left you the same way he left his third wife - he found someone else before he broke it off. Be very afraid of someone who CAN'T be alone - that usually means they are looking to another person to complete themselves, and when they discover it's not happening, they simply trade partners instead of realizing that they need to be complete ALL BY THEMSELVES.

I know you hurt right now. It will get better. It will be slow, but it WILL get better. You hold your head up and remember that you had no control over what he did to you, it wasn't your fault, and it doesn't mean that you'll never fall in love with something different.

Peace to you,

r

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