Re: Is it better to have loved and lost than never loved at all

Re: Is it better to have loved and lost than never loved at all ----- From: Bruce - Date: 18 Dec 1997

NiceGuy,Yup,what you feel hurts like hell.I sense it kind of tore your heart out in a way.It sounds like this tuff situation is making you close yourself off to any future loving experience you might have or encounter.But i will tell you something.When time has healed your pain and you do meet that special someone (and you will)You will have that loving feeling again just like the first time.Your a young guy,i think i saw 25 in a prior post.You have a LONG road ahead of you.Your just getting started.How about a little faith brother.I am going to let you in on something that made the most significant difference in my life with women.Go to your book store of choice and pick up a copy of Secrets of Seduction by Brenda Venus.A very misleading title to be sure.This is the first book i ever read that really clued me into WOMEN.You will be suprized what you do not know about them.How they think,feel and what they really want from there men.I'm 40 and this book was bar none the best thing i ever did for me.Guess what?For the first time in my life i am truly comfortable and understand these beauties we call women.The best part is when you give what they really want,you get back what you really want.BINGO!So i would say,quit feeling sorry for yourself and LEARN.Don't stop with one good book.Let it lead to another good book.When you invest this knowledge into your life NiceGuy you WILL get a return.Get your chin up NiceGuy and your butt in gear.Hit the road Jack and don't you come BACK until you have that book memorized.You may be one of the very few men that do understand women but,i doubt it.Good luck!I hope i have provided you with some motivation.Take a look at your life from a different angle and get going. -Bruce-