Re: Tis the Season.....

Re: Tis the Season..... ----- From: Dean - Date: 18 Dec 1997

Diane, Thank you for the response. I have to agree with you on everything you said. I DID send the card with good hearted thoughts for the season and didn't expect anything in return......guess I thought it would have been corgial (sp?) of her to at least acknowledge the jesture. I even send my ex-wife a card ever year and get an acknowledgement from her even tho she has remarried. I had no hidden meaning behind sending the card and was trying to be "just friends" as she had stated she wanted when we split. She had so much anger from her marriage that I feel it may have been projested on to me to some extent. I know I wasn't always the best person to be around especially when I was under a lot of stress, but neither was she. Sending the card was really a gesture for the season and nothing else......I wasn't "looking" for anything such as "dinner" or "when are you going to come back". I got over the affair she had and moved forward.......seeing other people now and finding out that I am really "OK" even with my faults. I've lived and learned from the experience....and valuable learning if I may say so! When someone has such high expectations of you that you can never achieve, it will never work. I love life and what it has to offer and I don't want to go thru that misery again. I am really OK now. Thank you for your response....and the joyous of the holiday season to you! ;-) {{{Diane}}}}......hugs & kisses...... Dean