Re: Is it better to have loved and lost than never loved at all

Re: Is it better to have loved and lost than never loved at all ----- From: PD - Date: 19 Dec 1997

Yes....in my opinion it is better to have loved and lost..than not to have loved at all.

Even lost, broken relationships teach us very valuable things about rerlationships, but more importantly about ourselves.

I have just went through basically two relationships, both toatlly different, but the education I received is tremendous. I am feeling better EVERY single day.....(of course with the help of the people of this forum).

I have been hurting for so long, I didn't think I would ever recover. I am not healed by any means, but at least I have a grip of WHO I AM..and what I want!!!

Sorry to go off here....but I just feel like I have so much to say....

You say you cannot let anyone close to you again, for (fear) of being hurt....well I cannot WAIT to GET close enough to someone to let them in....to love and share witht the good times and bad times.I have learned that when you face your biggest fears head on...it feels SO much better...enlightening.

I have rambled long enough.....take care and have faith..IT WILL ALL WORK OUT!!!

Hugs and much love to you